What Is Unfair To One Is Fair To Another

Anytime you feel that life is treating you unfairly, realize that there is someone else who is viewing what is occurring as fair. You need to seek the mindset they have, to see why they feel that way, and to see whether you can either emulate their mindset or see how your thinking has been a bit unhelpful. Perspective is a key part of what you bring to any new event, and you can also work on adjusting your perspective toward things you see as unfair now.

Monthly Rent Example

Let’s say you are paying rent for an apartment monthly, and see a friend who pays very little(property taxes) per month for their house, that their parents paid off already, looking at this situation as unfair makes you weaker. You want to look at it with an attitude of strength, and also account for the thoughts of your friend. They don’t have the struggle you have, so they see something else as the new struggle, since we as humans tend to always have something that causes us worry or concern.

Maybe your friend doesn’t like the thought that his friends think of him as spoiled, or that he has to stick with the house and can’t leave to another state. There is much we don’t think of as a possible problem when we only look at what we think is unfair.

Ditch The “Unfair” Label

Give the world around you a good hard look, and toss out anything you have labeled as unfair, or look at it in a different light until that label disappears. Until you see everything as fair in a certain context, you will be resisting what is, and less able to produce similar results of your own.

Armen Shirvanian writes for Timeless Information on topics including mindset development, social interaction, communication, and competition. He has also created a compilation eBook that has thorough discussion about 11 valuable quotations. You can check out his articles and eBook at www.timelessinformation.com